The fist question that our gay, lesbian or other sexual minority clients ask us is “Do you treat lesbian (gay, etc.) couple’s sexual problems?”. We want to take a moment and talk about this issue.
It is true that sexual minorities (or special subgroups) are viewed and sometimes treated with prejudice (fortunately to the lesser extent recently) by rest of the population. Gay, lesbians or people, belonging to other special subgroups, often feel that they are different and form tightly knit communities. But, as we know, population's minorities (religious, racial) in general often feel as well as are viewed and treated in similar unfair ways.
In reality sexual problems of a couple have little to do with its sexual orientation. If a person has psychological or psychiatric problems (depression, anxiety, low sex desire, etc.), these problems affect the person’s well being, his/her relationships and sex life regardless of whether he/she is heterosexual or homosexual. Sociological environment, religion, sex techniques, sexual orientation, etc. reflected of course to a certain degree in a couple’s sexual relationships, but the major aspect, from our point of view, is a communication between partners. Very often people cannot (or do not want) to communicate on a personal level. They do not talk about their problems, feelings and sex for years. It profoundly affects their sexual life, because sex itself is one of the major ways of communication.
In short, we strongly believe that members of sexual minorities suffer from the same problems that the rest of the population, and that the treatment of psychiatric, psychological and sexual problems is the same for gay/lesbian as well as for heterosexual couples.